Raising emotionally strong boys
I think one of the critical issues in a young man’s mental strength is simple — identifying emotions.
I think one of the critical issues in a young man’s mental strength is simple — identifying emotions.
Discipline is all about learning. We want kids to make the needed connections that allow for new behaviors next time. If they aren’t regulated, they can’t make the connections.
When I track through these stories, boys can often trace the events and identify where they got a signal they ignored or coaching from a parent they bypassed. They might even remember being told they were about to make things worse for themselves, and yet somehow the Hulk emerged.