In between these questions, we must lovingly listen to their response. Because if we are only thinking about winning an argument or what we will say next, then we won't reflect Christ in our conversations, and that is the most critical part in all of this. We must walk with them and seek to understand the truth not as adversaries but as friends. This is how we tear down spiritual strongholds. Not by our arguments or ideas, but by reflecting Christ in all the small moments.
In some circles of Christianity, there is shame in depression. It is true that we shouldn't be ashamed of it or hide it, but we should realize it is an attack on the truth. It's an attack on God's sovereignty and power. It's an attack on who we are in Christ and who He made us to be.
Pursuing a relationship with God is a lifelong process that won't make us rich, powerful, or famous by the world's standards. In fact, it might even be a detriment that will lead to more suffering in our lives. Yet, in that suffering, we can have joy because it glorifies God, which is the only thing that matters.
For if we take God out of the equation and admit that a chaplain doesn't need to be religious or spiritual, then what is the only difference between a counselor and a chaplain? It's worship. It's all about worship.
